What I Have Learned

I have learned how to be quiet and say what only needs to be said. This was hard at the beginning, but I'm much better at it. Consequently, I took off today to see what a day off would be like. He was around, but since I've become so independent, it didn't matter. Good for me!!

Tragedy and Success

For the last year, my friends have been receiving prank phone calls that were always blocked. They were horrific calls as when prospective in-laws were called and told that my friends families were.............. This came to a head when in September of 2011, my husband forgot to press Blocked and my friends discovered that he had called the Roto-Rooter man and ordered Mario's Piazza food for their entire family. This came to a head on a Sunday, when my girlfriend told me the story. I burst into racking tears and called Hilary. f he does it again, they will call the police and lock him up.

I have decided to have nonsensical conversations with him that don't include discussing anyone that I know and I have gotten much better at it. I also put myself back into therapy because if I am to retire, I need to be comfortable in my own home.